Sunday, March 21, 2010

Because women expect Romeo when they act like Roseanne

So here’s the thing. You’re not going to get his best, if you don’t give your best.

The fact of the matter is, ladies, men are far more insecure than you are. Don’t argue! It is a fact. An ugly, horrible fact. Therefore, he’s not going to get hints, or subtlety. He’s too busy trying to boost his own ego. If you want Romeo, it’s much easier than you thought to get him.

However, you will have to do some work to create it.

Now before you build this man into exactly what you want, be 100% sure that Romeo is exactly what you want. Do you like his devil-may-care disdain for you? Do you like that he seems a little unobtainable despite the fact that you’re in a relationships together? If you do, then you are not looking for a Romeo.

If you really want to build something with your guy, you are going to have to put out ahead of him. That is, you will have to put aside your petty problems and work at creating this with your man. You have to employ tactics. He is simply not going to start treating you like Juliette just because you deserve it.

I know you don’t want to. I know you think you shouldn’t have to. And you are absolutely right.

But here s the thing. You are simply not going to get what you want by wishing for it, and you are especially not going to get what you want by grumbling for it. Romeo is the same as every other exciting thing in life – it has to be earned.

The first thing women have to do is act like a free wild woman. You have to be the kind of woman a man will give up his own ego for. That is a tough call, but that is what it will take to create a Romeo.

Here is the problem. Women want a Romeo, but they don’t want to work for it. They want their man to be so smitten with their beauty, or “that certain special something” (her Je nais se quoi” in French) that they don’t actually want to create something with their man – build him, mould him – what they want is to have him fall at her feet of his own accord.

In romance novels the woman is always adored without having to be anythingb other than who she is. She is not just appreciated, she is worshiped. So much so, that every hero is just a little bit obsessive, and a little bit over protective.


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